It Has a Been a While…Let’s Chat!

Hey there! It has been a while since I posted a blog… since February to be exact! Having the urge to write this now shows me I’ve been doing exactly what I need to! I’ve said this multiple times before & I’ll say it again—grieving is a bit… uncanny to say the least.

Grieving rewired my brain. In June, I began reflecting on my mental state throughout this grieving process & I can proudly say I’m definitely more focused. With the number of deaths I went through last year, it was a realization that I’m not—I can’t think of the word, but let’s use intangible for now—it was a realization that I’m not intangible. Mind you, I had no idea I thought I was?!

But I quickly realized how often I took time for granted & that at any second, anyone’s life can end. I began thinking about what I would want to leave behind, if it were mine.

That “thing”, was more value.

To know me personally, is to know my energy & vibe exude high vibrations. But I wanted to leave value to help others learn how to channel that side of themselves, which overall is to put a stamp on it with x o J R.

So I honed in on creating a better foundation for my personal brand. I began to plan my days differently to be more effective; change my website format in preparation of new content; finish projects I sat aside because they “weren’t ready”; limit the amount of times I went out, just to hang out; distance myself from unsupportive individuals & making myself uncomfortable to create room for growth.

I can proudly say those were some of the best decisions I’ve madeeee! I’m definitely addicted to working but it never feels like pressure, because I LOVE IT. Releasing my new Gym at Home membership & e-Book has been beyond satisfying!!! I also noticed the excitement I feel from being more active on social media, so as I continue to grow my following there, to bring them here, I hope you continue to keep up along the way!

x o J R

P.S…I’m in no way saying grieving is easy…it’s hard, hard AF but it does get better. Just try not to lose yourself in the process.